I’ve been having lots of conversations (with other people & myself) about where style fits in right now. I’m thinking of it this way - that getting dressed & showing up is a form of resistance. As I’ve said to my clients for years - it’s not about the clothes. It’s about how the clothes make you feel. And right now we need to feel strong. So you can get dressed in the morning, love what you’re wearing - and then forget about it. And do what you need to do. So, here’s one way you can show up, step up & love what you’re wearing.
Read MoreThe outfit strategy you never thought about
What’s your strategy when creating outfits? Wait – you don’t have one? Don’t worry, most people don’t (unless you call finding a top, picking a pair of jeans and grabbing shoes a strategy). There are tons of strategies out there - but I’m talking about one that’s pretty simple. And it creates outfits that are completely interesting and compelling (no matter what your style is). Check out at a bunch of outfits I recently created for my clients. And they all demonstrate this strategy - with outfit ideas that you can totally copy!
Read More“I’m tired of my outfits”
“I’m just tired of my outfits.” I hear this all the time. You may have things that you love - but you’re always wearing them in the exact same way. And it feels like you see the same outfits when you look in the mirror, constantly on repeat. You know what I mean, right? So, if you’re ready for something new and fresh, here are 3 outfits you may be tired of. And how you can give them an update – while still being true to your personal style.
Read More5 small steps to upgrade your style (without shopping!)
Are you into New Year’s resolutions? Me neither (I prefer to change things up in the spring). But what I sometimes do at the beginning of the year is make small shifts. Little things and minor updates – because these can have a big impact. So, if you’re ready to shift your style (with some small tweaks to your routine). And if you’re ready to shake up how you get dressed (in a completely gentle way). Here are 5 small steps to upgrade your style for 2024 - and none of them include shopping.
Read More"I don't like summer style"
“I don’t like summer style.” I hear this a lot. Because getting dressed and feeling stylish can seem more difficult in summer. It’s hot. You can’t layer. You’re suddenly showing more skin. And you just don’t feel like yourself. You see everyone else wearing bright colors and tiered dresses and barely-there tops. And that’s not your vibe at all. The good news is that you can embrace your own personal style at any time of year – including summer. So, before you write off the entire season, here are a 5 ways you can enjoy your summer style.
Read More3 things you need to evolve your style (that you may not have thought of)
Do you feel like you defined your style years ago? Or is your style more of an evolution? I tend to think of style more as an evolution. Yes, there are things that you may always like. But life evolves. And your style evolves with it. I work with many clients who are in transition - having kids, new jobs, moving to a new place or starting to date again. And I work with some clients whose lives have simply evolved, but their style hasn’t caught up. So, if you’re in transition. Or you’re just ready to evolve your style - here are 3 things you need to evolve your style (that you may not have thought of).
Read MoreTHE UPDATE: How to go from style inspiration to outfit reality
Have you ever seen a picture of an outfit you love – but you have no idea how to make it work for you? Or have you been told to gather a bunch of style inspiration – but you’re thinking, “now what?” You’re not alone. The key is not looking at all style inspiration as literal outfits that you would wear. You can take aspects of the inspiration (like the color palette or the shape or the overall vibe) and interpret it in a way that makes sense for you. Take a look at a few outfits that I used for inspiration and the outfits they inspired. And let me know if they inspire you!
Read MoreTHE TIP: How to rediscover your style after the pandemic
Are you ready to leave your pandemic style behind? Me too. But ‘getting dressed’ again may be a bit challenging. It might feel uncomfortable (literally and figuratively). It will definitely take a while to get used to it. So, here’s what I’m suggesting. Follow (all or some of) my 5 tips so that you can get back into the groove of presenting yourself on purpose. Read how to do it without overwhelm - and in a way that feels completely authentic to where you are now.
Read MoreTHE UPDATE: 5 simple style resolutions for 2021
I know, 2020 wasn’t a stellar style year for anyone. You may have explored the depths of loungewear like never before. Day pajamas may be your new best friend. And you even may have forgotten what it was like to wear real shoes. So, how about looking at 2021 as an opportunity to re-establish priorities with your clothes and your style? If you’re ready to evolve how you’re dealing with what’s in your closet as we start the new year, check out my 5 simple style resolutions for 2021.
Read MoreTHE TIP: 5 stylist secrets to next level style
OK, so you’ve got the foundations of style covered. You have a versatile wardrobe & you know how to use it. And you understand the image you want to project & you feel totally pulled together – well, most of the time. That pulled together part is the tough one, right? It’s that little extra you-don’t-know-what that can elevate your style from just ok to sort of amazing. So, what is it that takes your style to the next level? I’ve got the secret. Actually, 5 of them.
Read MoreTHE LOOK: 7 work from home outfits (that don't include leggings!)
Have you been defaulting to a Zoom-appropriate top and leggings for working from home? Don't do it! Here are 7 outfits that are comfortable, professional and much more appropriate for long term work from home life - and none of them include anything that you'd wear to work out.
Read MoreTHE UPDATE: Why now is the best time to discover your personal style
Is your personal style top of mind, or is it something that has totally fallen by the wayside during quarantine? If you’re like most people, ‘style’ is something you may not have even considered for months. After all, you may be thinking, “why, Paul? I'm at home all the time and I’m wearing comfy clothes. Why should I worry about what's in my closet?" But contrary to what you may think, right now is the best time to get a handle on your style. Read why and how you can hone in on your style preferences during your time at home.
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